In the early 50’s, the families,  grandparents, parents and children ,used to spent the evening afer eating,  sitting around the table to tell stories.
While chatting each other, they  also held small jobs like peeling the vegetables, the fruit for jams ..  
Even children participated in these  activities:
Television had not yet entered the  homes of Italians.
On Christmas Eve, my mom involved  us 3 children to peel boiled chestnuts which Florentine people  call “ballotte”  .
This work is long but indispensable  to prepare the mashed chestnuts : the main ingredient  to make the Christmas  cake.
I learned from my mother, year  after year, all the steps of the recipe: currently it is my job to prepare the  cake .... with the help of my grandchildren!.